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Uncovering the Mysterious Advantages of Quiet A Buddhist Story about the Influence of Quietude

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 There was a huge hermitage of Gautam Buddha in a village. A famous Buddhist teacher lived there. There one of his disciples used to speak a lot. He used to talk here and there all the time. When he went to collect donations, he would bring a new storey from every house and tell it to the other disciples of the ashram. He used to talk bad about one disciple to another, backbiting and tried to be good in front of others. He used to praise himself from his own mouth and always tried to prove himself to be the most intelligent and best in front of the guru. He considered himself different and superior to all the disciples. He said that I am a child of a rich family. If I wanted, I could have lived a comfortable and full of facilities life. But I left all that and came here because I have to discover the truth, to know myself, to know life. That's why my sacrifice is bigger than all of you. One day the guru called all the disciples of the ashram and said, All of you have to take some r...

Top 6 Books Everyone Should Read Atleast Once

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1. How to Talk to Anyone The name of the author is Lal. L-A-L. the pronunciation is difficult. But here is the book. Awesome book. There are 92 little tricks to communicate with people very effectively. So there will be no problem. Simple, easy to understand, and it will help you in your office, at home, in social places when you talk to English.  2. Everyone Communicates, Few Connect The book is written by John Maxwell, Everyone Communicates, but Few Connects. Everyone must read this book. And again, language is very simple, lucid, words used are very easy.  3. Doesn't Hurt to Ask the author, Trey Gowdy,  the author talks about the power of asking questions, the power of questions. I mean, in communication, questions play a very important role. And he says that using the power of questions to communicate, connect, and persuade. Study of psychology. And you must have this book in your library.    4.Talk like TED  Carmine Gallo Author Name Next book is again...

10 Essential Tips for Managing Your Period and Boosting Energy

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Here are some tips for managing your period and maintaining energy during that time: 1. Stay Hydrated Be sure to consume enough water throughout the entire day. Staying hydrated can help reduce the symptoms of bloating and fatigue. 2. Eat Balanced Meals that are plentiful in fruits, vegetables, whole grains, and low-fat meat are recommended. Iron-rich foods, such as garlic and lentils, may be especially beneficial since some women may slightly decrease their iron during the period. 3. Light Exercise  Calmly performing simple exercises such as walking, yoga, or stretching can be beneficial for your mental health and can also relieve pain. Even if you are on your period you should do physical activities like outdoor workout to increase your energy levels. 4. Prioritize Sleep Make sure you're resting as much as possible. Sleep needs to be between 7 and 9 hours a day for your body repair and minimize tiredness.. 5. Deal with stress Stress can exacerbate menstrual symptoms so it is best...

Upholding Dignity: The Path to Success for Women

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Empowering Women: The Importance of Maintaining Dignity and Self-Respect on the Path to Success       Women are not required to leave their dignity and work anywhere. If their self-esteem is going somewhere, they don't need to be there. Women come and self respect, An occasion arises where self-respect is also lost, so don't stay at that place and leave. Because you have a unique effort to do that. That effort will definitely give you success one day. Seeking success will bring it.    

Exploring the Depths of Girl Love: Feelings, Pain, and Respect

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Exploring the Depths of Girl Love: Feelings, Pain, and Respect     Introduction:         Love, especially in the realm of girl love, is a beautiful yet complex journey filled with a mix of emotions. Joy, heartbreak, and a profound sense of affection intertwine to create a captivating, albeit sometimes painful, experience. This article aims to delve into the intricate layers associated with girl love, highlighting the significance of respect in nurturing these relationships. Through narratives, contemplations, and revelations, we seek to cultivate a space where readers can explore their own encounters with girl love and appreciate the depth of love shared amongst girls. Understanding the Emotional Landscape of Girl Love: The Spectrum of Feelings: Girl love goes beyond mere affection; it encompasses a wide spectrum of emotions, from warmth and happiness to uncertainty and sorrow. Whether in friendships or romantic connections, love serves as a ...

The Language of Love.

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   Love       That is true. Many people do not like the way of showing love by touch. Examine a couple walking past you.  In case both partners in that couple have no problems with public displays of affection, then there’s no issue at all.  However, I want to talk about Bharathiyar who was a great poet. According to sources, once he put his hand over her shoulder and walked along with his wife in open streets. To him, this was usual. But think about Chellamma, his wife too; it was not something she was used to. She found it difficult to accept it and also encountered social issues arising from such cases. It took her long time before getting used to. So as far as l am concerned we should give love in the way that makes the other person comfortable or towards their needs themselves when it comes to love .  That does not mean how l want my preferences expressed but rather what frequency that love is given out at . In psychology this is called “the ...

Justice for Victim : Kolkata Female Doctor Murder

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    In RG Kar Medical College in Kolkata, a female postgraduate trainee doctor was raped and killed. Hence, the man called Sanjay Roy has been taken into custody concerning this incidence and is being subjected to investigations.  Following this order of the Calcutta High Court, CBI (Central Bureau of Investigation) starts investigation in connection with murder case. However, lady doctors: but there are demonstrations by doctors following killing of lady doctor. There were many women who took part in the protest at midnight outside hospital premises. On top of that, police used force to disperse them from their demonstration. Thereafter, some people invaded the intensive care unit (ICU) section of the health facility and vandalized its equipment. They also beat up policemen. The law enforcement officers then resorted to tear gas which helped break apart the crowd further. Evidence: According to police reports 15 officers were injured during this incident. A total number ...

Different Ways for Women & Men ( Love & Sex)

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காதல் & உடலுறவு : ஆண்களுக்குà®®் பெண்களுக்குà®®் இத்தகைய வித்தியாசமான à®®ுà®±ையில் காதல் தேவை மற்à®±ுà®®் அணுகுவதற்கான காரணங்கள்.     à®’à®°ு பெண், ஆணை விà®°ுà®®்புவதால் உடலுறவு கொள்கிà®±ாள். à®’à®°ு ஆண் உடலுறவு கொள்ள விà®°ுà®®்புவதால், உடலுறவு கொள்கிà®±ான். வித்தியாசம் தெà®°ிகிறதா? இங்கு பெà®°ுà®®்பாலுà®®், உடலுறவு என்பது à®’à®°ு ஆணுக்கு உடல் சாà®°்ந்த விஷயம். ஆனால் à®’à®°ு பெண்ணுக்கு உடலுறவு என்பது உடல் à®°ீதியாகவுà®®், உணர்ச்சி à®°ீதியாகவுà®®் சம்பந்தப்பட்ட விஷயம். காதல் காரணமாக à®’à®°ு பெண் உடலுறவு கொள்ள சம்மதிக்கிà®±ாள். ஆனால் காதல் இல்லாமல், உடல் தேவை காரணமாக மட்டுà®®ே à®’à®°ு ஆணால் உடலுறவு கொள்ள à®®ுடியுà®®். à®’à®°ு பெண் உங்களுடன் உடலுறவு கொள்வதற்கு à®®ுன், அவள் உங்கள் à®®ீது மன à®°ீதியான உணர்வுகளை கொண்டிà®°ுக்க வேண்டுà®®். அவள் ஆணுடன், அந்த உணர்ச்சி à®°ீதியான பற்à®±ுதலை கொண்டிà®°ுக்க வேண்டுà®®். à®’à®°ு பெண்ணின் அந்த பிà®´ை கூட அன்பின் பரிà®®ாணம் கொண்டதாக இருக்குà®®். à®’à®°ு பெண் தான் காதலிக்காத ஆணுடன் உடலுறவு கொள்வதை நீà®™்கள் காண்பது à®…à®°ிது. அவள் விபச்சாà®°ியாக இருந்தால் தவிà®°. ஆனால் à®’à®°ு ஆணுக்கு, இது தலைகீà®´ாக இருக்கலாà®®். à®’à®°ு ஆணுக்கு à®’à®°ு பெண் à®®ீது சிà®±ிதுà®®் அன்பு இல்லாமல் இருக...

Love & Sex (different ways for women & men)

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  à´ª്രണയവും à´²ൈംà´—ികതയും: à´ªുà´°ുà´·à´¨്à´®ാà´°ും à´¸്à´¤്à´°ീà´•à´³ും à´µ്യത്യസ്തമാà´¯ à´°ീà´¤ിà´¯ിൽ à´ª്രണയം ആവശ്യമുà´³്ളതിൻ്à´±െà´¯ും സമീà´ªിà´•്à´•ുà´¨്നതിൻ്à´±െà´¯ും à´•ാരണങ്ങൾ            à´’à´°ു à´¸്à´¤്à´°ീ à´’à´°ു à´ªുà´°ുà´·à´¨െ à´¸്à´¨േà´¹ിà´•്à´•ുà´¨്നതിà´¨ാൽ à´¶ാà´°ീà´°ികബന്à´§à´¤്à´¤ിà´²േർപ്à´ªെà´Ÿുà´¨്à´¨ു. à´’à´°ു à´ªുà´°ുഷൻ à´¶ാà´°ീà´°ികബന്à´§à´¤്à´¤ിà´²േർപ്à´ªെà´Ÿാൻ ആഗ്à´°à´¹ിà´•്à´•ുà´¨്നതിà´¨ാൽ à´…à´¤് നടത്à´¤ുà´¨്à´¨ു. ഇവയിൽ à´µ്യത്à´¯ാà´¸ം à´•ാà´£ുà´¨്à´¨ുà´£്à´Ÿോ?   à´®ിà´•്à´•à´µാà´±ും, à´¶ാà´°ീà´°ികബന്à´§ം à´’à´°ു à´ªുà´°ുà´·à´¨്à´±െ à´¦ൃà´¶്യത്à´¤ിൽ à´¶ാà´°ീà´°ിà´•à´®ാà´¯  à´’à´°ു à´•ാà´°്യമാà´£്. à´Žà´¨്à´¨ാൽ, à´’à´°ു à´¸്à´¤്à´°ീà´•്à´•് ഇത് à´¶ാà´°ീà´°ിà´•à´µും à´®ാനസിà´•à´µുà´®ാà´¯ ബന്à´§à´®ാà´¯ിà´°ിà´•്à´•ും. à´’à´°ു à´¸്à´¤്à´°ീ à´¸്à´¨േഹത്à´¤ിà´¨്à´±െ à´•ാà´°à´£ം à´•ൊà´£്à´Ÿാà´£് à´¶ാà´°ീà´°ികബന്à´§à´¤്à´¤ിà´²േർപ്à´ªെà´Ÿുà´¨്നത്. à´Žà´¨്à´¨ാൽ, à´’à´°ു à´ªുà´°ുഷൻ à´¸്à´¨േഹമിà´²്à´²ാà´¤െ, à´µെà´±ും à´¶ാà´°ീà´°ിà´• ആവശ്à´¯ം à´¨ിറവേà´±്à´±ുà´¨്നതിà´¨ാà´¯ി à´®ാà´¤്à´°ം ഇത് à´šെà´¯്à´¯ാൻ à´•à´´ിà´¯ും. à´’à´°ു à´¸്à´¤്à´°ീ à´¨ിà´™്ങൾക്à´•ൊà´ª്à´ªം à´¶ാà´°ീà´°ികബന്à´§à´¤്à´¤ിà´²േർപ്à´ªെà´Ÿുà´¨്നതിà´¨് à´®ുà´®്à´ª്, അവൾക്à´•് à´¨ിà´™്ങളുà´Ÿെ à´®േà´²ുà´³്à´³ à´®ാനസിà´•à´®ാà´¯ à´µിà´•ാà´°à´™്ങൾ ഉണ്à´Ÿാà´¯ിà´°ിà´•്à´•à´£ം. അവൾക്à´•് à´† à´ªുà´°ുà´·à´¨ുà´®ാà´¯ി à´† à´®ാനസിà´• ബന്à´§ം ഉണ്à´Ÿാà´¯ിà´°ിà´•്à´•à´£ം. അവളുà´Ÿെ à´ªിà´´à´¯ും à´¸്à´¨േഹത്à´¤ിà´¨്à´±െ à´µ്à´¯ാà´´à´®ാസമാà´¯ിà´°ിà´•്à´•ും. à´’à´°ു à´¸്à´¤്à´°ീ à´¸്à´¨േà´¹ിà´•്à´•ുà´¨്à´¨ിà´²്à´²ാà´¤്à´¤ à´ªുà´°ുà´·à´¨ുà´®ാà´¯ി à´¶ാà´°ീà´°ികബന്à´§à´¤്à´¤ിà´²േർപ്à´ªെà´Ÿുà´¨്നത് à´…à´ªൂർവമാà´£്. അവൾ à´’à´°ു à´µേà´¶...

Love & Sex : The Reasons Why Men and Women Need and Approach Love in Such a Different Manner

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                               Love & Sex A woman engages in sexual activity because she loves the man. A man engages in sexual activity because he wants to have sex. Do you see the difference? In most cases, sexual activity is a physical matter for a man. However, for a woman, it is both a physical and emotional connection. A woman agrees to have sex because of love. But without love, a man can engage in sex purely for physical needs. Before a woman engages in sexual activity with you, she must have emotional feelings for you. She needs to have that emotional connection with the man. Even her mistake may be driven by love. It is rare to see a woman having sex with a man she doesn’t love, unless she is a sex worker. But for a man, it could be the opposite. A man can have sex with a woman without having any love for her. That’s why a man might seek out a sex worker purely for sexual needs. A man doesn't n...