The Language of Love.

 

 Love

 

 

 

That is true. Many people do not like the way of showing love by touch. Examine a couple walking past you. 

In case both partners in that couple have no problems with public displays of affection, then there’s no issue at all. 

However, I want to talk about Bharathiyar who was a great poet. According to sources, once he put his hand over her shoulder and walked along with his wife in open streets. To him, this was usual. But think about Chellamma, his wife too; it was not something she was used to. She found it difficult to accept it and also encountered social issues arising from such cases. It took her long time before getting used to.

So as far as l am concerned we should give love in the way that makes the other person comfortable or towards their needs themselves when it comes to love . 

That does not mean how l want my preferences expressed but rather what frequency that love is given out at . In psychology this is called “the language of love”.